Let him be the strength in your life.
I think the biggest mistake I witness is people feeling they have to rehearse and be structure when they speak to God. Yes, we MUST remain humble and respectful because he IS Holy. Please do not read me wrong. However, when I began to learn about God I suffered from a lot of things and I did not “think” they were worthy of prayer. I was angry! I felt like I could never go and say, ” God I am mad!” So I begin to withdraw. I knew I was messing up my life, but I felt like I could not pray about it because I was responsible for my actions. It was never a thought that I could be so open and honest with God about my not so loving and hateful ways. I could ask him for help! I run into a lot of believers that tell me they cannot talk to God because of what they have done, or that they do not measure up just yet. The saddest thing I hear is well let me get myself together then I will go to church, or I will begin to read my Bible. WRONG, but what has happened is people have made others feel that way. I want people that do not understand entirely that God does not view us and think on our small level. He does not see what you are but what your potential is. He wants you to petition everything in prayer. That does not exclude a thing.
God is big enough to handle our honest feelings!
He is not surprised at you. You do not shock him. What happens when you pray and pray then hear nothing? Let us face it, we have all been here. Seems like God is leaving me to drown in my mess. Then we are tempted to withdraw from him. Maybe he is so mad at us that he has turned away too? Negative, these are the times where you have to press on (a phrase recently embedded in my heart). I use to have a tendency to withdraw when I was feeling this way. From everyone and everything; I figured people had their issues. I also thought God was disappointed in me so much, and I needed to figure this out.
The only truth was I did not know the full nature of God, and I did not read my Bible. Many people do not read their Bible because honestly in your fleshy state it can seem boring. The reality is it reveals the truth we are to live in and holds an incredible amount of wisdom. Through reading different books and drawing closer to God, I have picked up some tips for pressing on when God feels like he is not there.
When you feel like God is absent, and you want to pull away…press in harder than ever to God.
I will not make light of issues that arise in our journey of life. Who feels like reading? Going to church? God is silent, so he must be mad? False. When we pull away we make things worse for us, and he is our only comfort, he has never left our sides. God says, “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29: 13) this include the broken pieced of our heart as well.
When you want to get lost in complaints, refocus on being thankful!
We MUST find the strength to always praise and be thankful. Truthfully, even though our trials we STILL have so much to be thankful for. The key to getting through issues that arise in our lives is to be mindful of how we are thinking. The thought process is what makes us miserable and in will attract more trials. We are giving permission for more problems by focusing so much on the current ones. Changing the way we talk is also paramount. Less complaining and more thankful praises.
A Good friend in truth!
I am so guilty of retreating from everyone when I am experiencing hardships, and there are times when being alone is very necessary. When we are walking this journey of life and moving closer to our creator, we need the believers around to help encourage us through hard times. We need to be reminded of things that we tend to forget because of our despair.
I hope today that someone would be encouraged to be open and honest with God in your authentic form. It is truly the best way to overcome this world. God is available for every single moment of our lives. Do not forget also to thank him, and just talk to him out of appreciation for his goodness and healing love!
Love & Light,
Vita
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